LOL. You just found the right words for what I always thought. :-)
Anyway, there's one thing I find much more annoying when working with "real" (read: DD entry) user registration attempts. I never know when and if Domino will really pick up the account and in particular any group memberships.
Maybe it's only me, but to date I have not found a reliable way to send out a notification message to the new registered users at a point in time, where I can be absolutely sure, that the new account is fully functional. If you have available any magic tricks here, let it flow.